Today more than ever I thrive off the authentic BDSM power dynamics, I like my slaves begging to see me. Initial contact must be formal, respectful and submissive. I don’t need you, but you need me. At least to begin. Later I might want you too, but only once you have proven yourself, and that is your duty as a submissive in my world. To begin, you are aware of your place in the ether, and must make an effort to show me that you are an addition to my life or I will not welcome you into it. 

Long gone are the days that I accept everyone that messages me for a quick fix. You must prove I will enjoy my time with you before I will consider accepting your application and worship me accordingly.

Having started my journey is September 2016, I am approaching a decade in the industry. Over time my role as a dominant woman has become more and more authentic. At the start I was very explorative and probably more of a kinkster than a dominatrix, I was doe eyed, curious and excitable. Now, today, I am calm, serene and intensely rich in my knowledge and understanding of BDSM practices and my own personal desires as a dominatrix. 

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The days of a submissive messaging me with a long list of things they want me to do to them are long gone. You wish sunshine. There is so much irony in that format. I am not your slave, you are mine. 

Over time, perhaps I will open my long list of kinks that are a potential offering to you. And of course, they are on offer to my regulars that have demonstrated their devotion. 

But you must demonstrate your submission as a service for my pleasure, not for yours. 

You can start by asking what would please me. Or you can politely demonstrate how you’ll be useful to me. The mention of a few of your interests is even allowed. But I hope it’s very clear now that this is not your entitlement or demand and I reject applications that do not comply with my style. 

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Having said all that, I enjoy all the activities, kinks and fetishes that I offer, so if it’s listed here then it’s allowed in theory. 

In terms of sessions together, foot fetish is my number one kink, always has been and always will be. I enjoy hours with you stroking my perfect little feet. I enjoy the physical sensation just as much as the manual labour, I love to be worshipped in this way. Secondly, I love psychological play, but this doesn’t usually happen straight away. I prefer long term relationships to build a mutual respect and understanding of each other. Take me to dinner and get to know me. I train you up over time to serve me as best you can, as well as enrich your life by getting to know your deepest kinks and fetishes and exploring them together under my full control. 

Roleplay scenes are next on my list of loves. Whether it be really erotic and sexy, or really sadistic and nasty, creating a scene with a rich story thrills me. I thrive on the intensity of the storyline, the growing tension between the two of us. Time stands still and we are both totally in the moment.  

More about my interests coming soon…